Practice Nothingness, Step 3: Quit Being a Victim, Splitting Your Inner Dialog
32K views · Jan 2, 2021 · People & Blogs
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@DEBORASANTOSSA · 3 years ago
Give this Man a Nobel prize now! 🤓
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@Priyaahandle · 5 years ago
The more I listen to him and get to know about people now .........the more I prefer now to distance myself from all in the rest of my life 😳
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@MoonLeaf_RaquelLeBaudour · 4 years ago
I tell everybody about you! —You saved me. 💜<br>🍃🍁🍃
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@SF-cq6bg · 3 years ago
We are the World is a psychotic song.
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@christianrokicki · 1 year ago
The victim identity engenders a sense of entitlement and justifies whatever deceit they engage in to get what they want or to spoil the wellbeing of an envied other. So they cannot afford any kind of integrity. Or conscience.
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@integratedwellness333 · 4 years ago
I have worked with a therapist for a long time that used TA. It has helped me to become a contributing member to society. I "hear" the adult, critical and nurturing parent, free and adaptive child in your explanation in this video. I also recognize "them" in your 14 shadows. Thank you for the validation Sam.
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@esztermagos3387 · 4 years ago
Wow! The mention of Kafka’s The Trial made me feel the void of the main character. I find that piece of art a one of a lifetime experience. The incapability of finding the reason of the charge in endless corridors and the encounter with all the cold characters as well as the recognition of his own, hopeless coldness is the best expression of the void. Thank you for mentioning it. Your teachings related to literature and philosophy are priceless.
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@angecynthia347 · 4 years ago
When i faced external mortification, narcissist mother couldn't lack behind,she caused both external and internal mortification,,wronggg when you are dedicated to living seeing pain in your child you are a criminal you are a killer..she is my number one enemy meaning even if i heard she is on bed on her last days i couldnot care less...nothing makes me happy that i will not be around her in her misery life goneee..
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@HenryVogel-c4g · 8 months ago
When U enter the flow state in talks. And I also do it, in absorbering it. MAGIC happens. THANKS Sam
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@lifepsycleofficial24 · 5 years ago
You're a wonderful teacher Professor!
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@russruss2446 · 1 year ago
I wonder why these truths don’t permeate the mainstream. Everyone just wants to hate narcissists. Nobody wants to take responsibility for themselves.
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@belasonja · 2 years ago
so accurate...the part in which he describes the crisis in one's life and that combined with the mother"s voice, which only adds more discomfort...disheartening.
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