Why Dating Gets Harder When You Level Up as a Man
14K views · Jul 20, 2026 · Education
Comments · 176
@blmplumbing84 · 2 months ago (edited)
This just reinforces how lucky I am to have found a great wife. In March, at 5ft 9" I was a 215lb alcoholic. She gave me an ultimatum, "get a hold of your life, remember who you used to be (I was lean when she met me 20 years ago), or me and kids will have to move out because we can't watch you destroy yourself". I locked in, got sober, and so far i've dropped 42lbs and am targeting a goal of 12% bodyfat. She eats what i eat and when we aren't eating together, she is still dialled in, and never gives me shit for waking up at 5am every day to go to the gym. She's encouraged me to be the leader of our family again.<br><br>Appreciate your content dude.
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@tabithafit04 · 2 months ago
You're one of them most consistent YouTubers I'm subscribed to!
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@kokoalaska9888 · 2 months ago
I know this is a “men’s channel”, but your videos are fire bro. You give me the cold raw truth that female influencers don’t.🔥🔥🔥<br><br>Just started my weight loss journey again a week ago ( in the gym 5 days a week/high protien diet) and dating has been just a DISTRACTION. Was literally begging for my ex to give me another chance 3 weeks ago and once I got “locked in”, I still love him, but it’s time to love myself.
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@TheExtraPointDK · 2 months ago
I see LV fitness upload…..I click 🔥😤💪🏾
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@bruit8202 · 2 months ago (edited)
Facts,<br>But there is alot of people out there who aren't just normies going to bars.<br><br>Get into intentional communities like dancing, climbing or whatever.<br><br>These are the best friends cause you never need to see them except in that context, it doesn't drag down your goals
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@WooWhey · 2 months ago
Yep... Dating becomes both easy in some aspects and harder in others. Crazy how perception of female's attractiveness and my preferences change in correlation to bodyweight, I noticed.
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@bigvic950 · 2 months ago
What the average person calls a good time I call hell/nightmare.
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@cynicist8114 · 2 months ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkcE_-hPyjg&t=1565">26:05</a> Yeah I've realized that when women say men are "emotionally unavailable", what they really mean is that you can't be manipulated like the average guy. The way they use words is crazy.
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@ZestyDL · 2 months ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkcE_-hPyjg&t=870">14:30</a> Not "the gym bops be burning!".. 🔥🤣🤣
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@Gr1mmjoww_13 · 2 months ago
Never understood why people love to drink so much. In the army i'd get made fun of all the time for either not drinking or keeping my night to 1 or 2 drinks and I only did that much to fit in (I know young and dumb). Everyone bragging about how much they can drink and I'm like you're just racing to the grave faster 💀.
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@finemr.louden3285 · 2 months ago
It's difficult to find like minded people in my life. I appreciate you keeping me grounded and locked in
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@MrGenedancingmachine · 2 months ago
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkcE_-hPyjg&t=168">2:48</a> Pixar character head
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