Why do men push you away then beg you back?

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• CR

  @Crystalcannoli · 5 years ago

  They think they can do BETTER..then realize they can't. Don't let a Man DUMP you twice!

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• CO

  @CoachLove · 5 years ago

  A woman will put up with so much while most men will bounce. Their standards seem to be a lot higher than many women...

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• JE

  @jewelsafire6844 · 5 years ago

  Self-respect is the most valuable possession we have. Never leave home without it.🤗🙏🏽🌹♥

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• SA

  @sarah_1488 · 5 years ago

  Because you’re a joke to them. Currently going through this, mixed signals &amp; confusion. <br><br>Stepping away for my sanity.

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• BE

  @beebeeguest · 5 years ago

  My answer is because he doesn’t want me. That why 😆 <br><br>Learning to accept the harsh reality. Ladies go where you are celebrated. It feels good there. ✌🏾

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• AL

  @AlexandraDebbrosse · 5 years ago

  A man will only do what you allow. I use to get irritated with people trying and testing me. Cause I hated confronting people, it made me feel like I was wrong. But now I know people will try you to test you. So kick that fear of feeling guilty for standing up for yourself, confront them! call them out on their bullshit and Do it as soon as possible don’t let it fester and bottle up within you.

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• TH

  @Th3lite · 5 years ago (edited)

  It&apos;s because they like the chase but they don&apos;t play for keeps. It&apos;s all for sport.

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• TH

  @thegoddessempirelifecoachi6298 · 5 years ago

  Ladies! We are not losing or missing anything by cutting off these grown boys. There is still great grown men out there and available. A lot of times we just need to get rid of the scarcity mindset that there aren’t any more or that we can’t find better.

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• AZ

  @Azizajewelry · 5 years ago

  The key is when he pushes boundaries the first time, you have to check him. If he’s pushed you too far, you let too many times slide before that.

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• SE

  @SealztheMan · 5 years ago

  Great points. I also I find in a lot of men I mentor, they learn more from losing than they do from gaining. When a man loses a good thing, it will haunt him until he faces it head on. They will then come back to you to either try to fix things or speak his mind. I always tell men, you need to be precise in what you want and if you have a good thing, do not self sabotage your blessing. I appreciate the game OG

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• WA

  @wagendorf31 · 5 years ago (edited)

  I’d guess you are dealing with a narcissist if they &nbsp;are manipulating you like that. They enjoy the challenge fuel. A good guy won’t second guess if he wants you!

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• AS

  @ashleycbla · 5 years ago

  Key point: Set standards for yourself and you have to be willing to walk away.

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