TOTOHOKER - SPOWIEDŹ KU PRZESTRODZE. NIKOLA GRZELAK (GRZELTON, MAKSYM WOŁCZYK)

This episode is sponsored by Skib-med, a medical and rehabilitation equipment store - Skib-med.pl The channel is sponsored by Mister Smaku - The best dietary catering at an affordable price www.mistersmaku.pl The discount code "szalony26" entitles you to a 26% discount Totohoker Nikola Grzelak @totohoker @grzelton - a TikToker who gained immense popularity by presenting the behind-the-scenes of her work in the world's most challenging profession. Years ago, she left the internet when she began to realize the costs of such a life. Now she's back to warn anyone who might want to take this shortcut. This isn't a conversation we recorded to judge, shame, or draw out the most shocking moments from someone's life. Nikola was looking for a place to tell her story. Why? Because she believes that if she had heard a similar conversation six years ago, she might have made different decisions. Today, such work is increasingly portrayed online as a quick way to earn money, independence, and a better life. We see salaries, apartments, travel, and shopping. We see much less of what happens in between. In this conversation, you'll hear difficult things. Topics like sexual assault, drugs, abuse, and mental health issues will come up. We're not publishing them for sensationalism. We're publishing them because somewhere on the other side of the screen, there might be a young girl wondering whether to give it a try. Perhaps no one will convince her not to do it with just words. Perhaps she needs to hear why first. And that's precisely the purpose of this conversation. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:03:11 The purpose of the podcast 00:04:35 Selling feet 00:05:50 The story with the orphanage 00:07:05 I will never allow myself to be poor 00:08:00 Differences in orphanages 00:09:44 The shortest way to money 00:10:30 Selling three times your virginity 00:12:52 Problems with a foster family and staying in a boarding school 00:14:28 Groups of men during meetings 00:15:01 Experiences and emotions while selling virginity 00:16:37 Selling an apartment and overpaying money 00:18:19 Arrival in England 00:20:03 Lack of a sense of attractiveness 00:20:59 Beginnings of working as a prostitute in England 00:22:26 Differences between working in an escort agency and freelance work a shooter 00:23:46 Safety 00:24:24 What was the transition like to work at an agency? 00:25:28 Rankings in this industry 00:25:41 House parties 00:26:10 Creating a profile 00:27:57 A person renting an apartment through an escort agency 00:30:42 How long did you work before coming to Poland? 00:31:02 Health problems after work 00:31:51 Lack of attention for most of your life and the sexual sphere 00:33:10 Having a boyfriend and working in... 00:33:47 Work style 00:35:01 Denial syndrome 00:35:36 High school 00:36:43 Another trip to England 00:37:23 Substances 00:38:51 Management at an agency 00:39:50 Preparation Mentally preparing for working with a client 00:40:21 Adrenaline in a relationship with a client 00:41:47 Type of clients 00:42:49 Married men 00:43:56 Fear of break-ins during work 00:46:02 Aggressive client 00:46:46 Fake reservations 00:47:21 Review sites 00:48:28 Types of fantasies 00:50:09 Men's loneliness and the need for a cuddle 00:51:21 Maksym Wolczyk 00:52:15 Dangerous situations 00:52:46 Rape 00:53:37 Girls losing a lot of money in the industry 00:54:09 Moments when you wanted to quit 00:55:06 Reasons for other girls entering the profession 00:56:28 British women working in prostitution 00:56:40 Was being larger an advantage in this job? 00:57:32 Throat gonorrhea 00:58:33 Is prostitution legal in England? 00:59:23 Sexually transmitted diseases 00:59:56 Hygiene among clients 01:00:23 The youngest and oldest clients 01:02:07 Prostitution, alcohol, and drugs 01:04:06 Length of service 01:04:30 Self-employment 01:10:08 Deciding to end work 01:16:05 Online recording and the specifics of a previous job 01:16:44 Client's recording history 01:17:38 Do they know about her past at her current job? 01:18:23 The impact of work on her sexuality 01:19:16 An appeal to women who want to leave this profession 01:19:46 My mental state after leaving... 01:20:32 Clients wanted to marry me 01:21:45 What's the current situation with sex? 01:22:17 Message to women continued 01:24:13 What happens when the savings run out? 01:26:30 Building a normal relationship 01:29:20 Having children 01:32:07 Blue platform 01:34:56 Insecurities 01:38:00 A friend while working in England 01:38:37 Moments of breakdown 01:39:18 Current status regarding substances 01:42:35 Plans for the future 01:44:58 Idea for a YouTube channel 01:45:20 Music 01:46:56 What is the darkest side of this profession? 01:49:15 Fantasies 01:50:13 Did she enjoy a sexual act? 01:50:56 How many girls want to leave this job? 01:52:09 Will you ever return to this job?