Is Secret Polygamous Marriage Considered Cheating? | Dr. Shabir Ally & Dr. Safiyyah Ally

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  @ChingeShahyonghu · 5 months ago

  If you are kind enough you can take care of orphans without marrying their mother widows

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• AH

  @ahmedroney7517 · 1 year ago

  Thank you for addressing this deeply troubling issue. It’s especially important given the recent wave of videos from prominent social media figures like Mohammed Hijab, Daniel, and certain Imams, who have publicly endorsed the permissibility of secret marriages for men. These declarations have not only drawn the attention of non-Muslims—who now question the ethical foundations of our faith—but have also deeply wounded countless Muslim women who feel betrayed and devalued.<br> <br>What’s most heartbreaking is the blatant disregard for the moral compass and spiritual integrity that the Qur&apos;an so clearly upholds. These individuals, cloaked in religious authority, have reduced Islam to a set of rituals and legal loopholes, stripping away the compassion, justice, and transparency that are its very essence. When religious leaders distort sacred teachings to justify secrecy and emotional harm, they erode trust within the ummah and tarnish the image of Islam in the eyes of the world. <br><br>This is not just a theological misstep—it’s a moral crisis. And it demands accountability, reflection, and a return to the values that truly define our faith.

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• BE

  @Bee-l5t · 9 months ago

  I truly respect him I subscribed after this video. This is most fair , concerned, selfless answered

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• HA

  @hassanabdur-rahman1559 · 1 year ago

  He explained it well. Many people are making negative comments are not being truthful.

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• HP

  @hpramina1 · 1 year ago

  Respect to Brother Shabbir for speaking the truth. People this days twists the narrative from the facts for their convenience but the truth as presented in the Quran remains absolute and undeniable.

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• AL

  @AlvinEugene11 · 8 months ago

  The most argued topic in the ummah.

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• HY

  @Hydroponisknorge · 6 months ago

  The most beautiful here is a daughter father talk :) I love both of you.

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  @Andrew_Young · 6 months ago

  You both had such good points! &nbsp;When you think about how desperate the situation would be for the orphans and single mothers it makes sense that marriage would be suggested in that kind of case. &nbsp;The orphans and mother are literally in danger of death and even then it is only allowed if it would also be just for the first wife. &nbsp;The idea that someone would use that verse in defense of a secret and obviously harmful marriage is outrageous! &nbsp;And I&apos;m saying this as an atheist who is obviously not biased in favor of Islam.

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• DR

  @DrWoofOfficial · 1 year ago

  &quot;...and not taking secret friends/lovers&quot; (5:5)

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• BE

  @beyondclouds6745 · 1 year ago

  Watch all of those who think Allah created Islaam and women distinctly for their nafs lose their minds from info that doesn’t strike their egos and view their wives as insignificant 😂😂 <br><br>These dudes believing that secrecy and deceit (characteristics of the shayatin) is permissible- especially towards one’s wife, especially when Allah has told us that marriage is to place tranquility between spouses- makes their disrespected of Dr. Shabir even MORE ridiculous 😂😂

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• NE

  @neeli30 · 1 year ago

  Masha Allah! Very well explained ❤❤❤❤Jazzak Allah khair

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• FK

  @fkalajanga · 1 year ago

  Your explanation is apt, i like the background you have laid. Thank you Dr Shabir

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