ASMR get ready with me for a night out 🪩💄

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• JU

  @judaszavala5613 · 10 days ago (edited)

  Lmao I have a buddy in my group who went from drinking and smoking to a straight edge. Hes still always with us when we all hang and even party he doesnt care, he just likes to be there for the fun of it. Were all really glad he still chills with us, he'll always be the best sober or not, we all love the guy and support him on his sober journey 🙌🏽🔥❤️

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• DR

  @drakepalmer2723 · 10 days ago

  I don't often comment, but I have to say that it's so refreshing to hear people (Fleur and other commenters) talk about living substance-free. I know that in reality many people don't drink, but it often doesn't feel that way because it's so culturally ubiquitous. I appreciate having this space!

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• RI

  @ripxdoc · 7 days ago

  what a thoughtful and insightful conversation, thank you for sharing. Being introverted and shy, i obviously found it much easier to do things once i had a drink, but i have alcoholism in my family, so i found it very hard to stop once i had started. Which got me into a number of situations i am not proud of, because of that i gave it up for years, and people would always push on that boundary "oh go on it's just 1" "oh you're so boring" yada yada. to cut a long story short, my relationship with alcohol is now healthy and i don't know why i'm sharing lol.

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• GI

  @giuliasversion · 10 days ago

  “I rarely go out” should also be the title under my name on my grave 😂😂 I also stopped for health issues I’ve had such stomachaches and the alcohol absolutely made it worse for obvious reasons, I also noticed that my skin got so much better when I stopped drinking regularly (meaning just the weekends) or when I was with people. I think I changed my “using alcohol as distraction or feeling better” feeling with asmr and music and it’s definitely changed my life for the better. I do feel weird sometimes especially because people would be like omg don’t be a bore and drink a glass, so that’s mostly why I don’t love going out. Ty for talking about your experience, lots of love ur way fleur ❤🫶

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• FL

  @FloristeLindert · 9 days ago

  As someone who's introvert, I've always avoided alcohol or party-going for the sake of socializing and I really relate to your experience. Glad to see you sober, much love Fleur ❤

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• NO

  @nobodyaskedcas · 10 days ago

  Hi fleur 🫶🏻 thank you sm for talking about your sober journey, I’m 25 and 11 months sober and it’s the best thing i ever did. Hearing you talk about it makes me feel less alone so thank you, your asmr makes such a big difference in my anxiety 🤗 and I am so happy to see you doing better!!

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• AB

  @Abc1234-z6g · 9 days ago

  I’m also sober and that really put my relationships with people to the test lol. A lot of friendships I had revolved around meeting and drinking, when I stopped doing that I was not interesting to them anymore. 3 years later and I’ve never been happier, being sober is so great

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• KE

  @kelsl96 · 10 days ago (edited)

  I also have emetophobia! And I am also chronically nauseous 😂 I just turned 30 in June and I’ve never really drank, I’ve had a total of maybe 8 drinks in my life. Never been drunk. I have no issues with people drinking, I just don’t do it because I’m afraid it’s going to make me sick. I’m so proud of you for being sober!

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• AX

  @AxleTheGoatSol · 9 days ago

  Im 5 weeks off the mary jane and around 1 month of drinks, still go out a little bit but now sober and its still fun but I cant make myself stay out late as anymore it just gets boring lmao. But I realized I was putting on a show and that that life choice wasn't for me so I quit and i've never felt better. I seriously don't think ill ever go back, maybe a slip up here and there but for the most it just isn't the person I am.

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• LI

  @LingaBirdie · 10 days ago (edited)

  I never liked alcohol. I used to go out and drink one lemon-vodka and I would be the life of the party, they would call me the drunk sober cause I would dance and laugh and socialize. One time, my friend was in charge of the drinks and while dancing to an incredible DJ, she would refill and refill my glass and i didn&apos;t notice until we had drunk 3 bottles. It was awful, I had hyper awareness instead of being drunk, I was noticing everything all at once, details, emotions, different energies and vibes from the people around me, my anxieties and missing my boyfriend etc etc. It was an awful experience. I quit drinking the same night. <br>Nowadays, in my 30s, living on a greek island, I never drink except some wine once or twice per year and in August, when my friends come to visit I drink cocktails, I love them but I cannot drink by myself plus I always have some digestive upset afterwards for some reason. <br>I am a recovering codependent and I think that in order to have a bad relationship with alcohol, you need to have a tendency for addictions, it&apos;s either because of brain chemistry or codependency, which is the core of all addictions according to some psychologists. Very interesting stuff.

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• TE

  @teresalilja6096 · 8 days ago

  I relate to this so much, thank you for this conversation&lt;3

• KI

  @kiralynn1297 · 4 days ago

  you look gorg girl also more sims 3 pleaseeee?😏🫶